Jan 28 2013
It’s probably a little hard to admit, but we’re not always right. If you’re trying to convince yourself otherwise, there’s a lie to add to this list.
While most of us claim we have it all figured out, the truth is we just have no idea. No matter how set we are in our ways, there’s always something that throws a curveball that just has to complicate things.
Whether it’s an ex deciding she wants to give it another go, or a roommate wanting to split town before the ink on the year-long lease even dries, things will never be perfect.
If you’re like us, the one thing we try to control is our decisions, but even that takes a lot of work. Without regard to feelings—both good and bad or yours or others—here are the things we tend to tell ourselves, even though deep down there’s no way they’re true.
Oh well, deal with it pal, like we said, nothing will ever be perfect!
1. I Can Definitely Get That Girl
We’re firm believers that any guy can seriously score any girl, it just comes down confidence, who the girl is, and how much work it’s going to take. But it has to be within reason. As you already know, there’s rules. Don’t ever go after a girl for pure ego. The hottest girl in the bar knows every dude’s looking at her, so if you try to make it about landing her just to impress your bros, it’s already over. If you do land her number, props, now be yourself and charm her, otherwise you’ll be like every other dude who tries to be way too cool for school, and you’ll blow it.
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